Welcome to the Memory Advent Calendar.
The mainstream American holiday season, as it is often celebrated,
follows a thematic arc, moving from the modern past to the ancient past
to the future.
Thanksgiving in late November is the first holiday of the season and
functions as an introduction, setting the stage by focusing on
tradition. Thanksgiving is usually celebrated in old places, where
people tell old stories and eat old kinds of food. Together with the
Fourth of July it honors, in however mythologized or confabulated or
ridiculous a way, the origin of a group national identity.
Throughout December, our attention stays focused on the past. We go
“home for the holidays”, often returning from our modern urban
lifestyles to a family house in the countryside. We practice traditions
of the “old world.” We sing old songs. We play old games in the
snow. The month of December, the month of the winter solstice, is a
time to observe recurrence.
Christmas arrives as the centerpiece of tradition, even for many
families that are otherwise secular or even of non-Christian faiths. On
this day, and on its eve, we’re made to consider the origins of
Christianity. While Thanksgiving brings us back 300 years, Christmas
brings us back 2,000. It is a time to contemplate past continuity and
change, change in our mass identity as well as change in our families.
Less than a week later, when we’ve barely recovered from yule logs
and eggnog, the narrative shifts abruptly. We suddenly look to the
future. We make a flurry of New Year’s resolutions and start planning
for the months to come. Christmas and Thanksgiving are holidays meant
for those old enough to reminisce; New Year’s is a holiday meant for
those young enough to drink and celebrate well into the morning.
In the spirit of this narrative, I would like to focus on the span of
time leading up to Christmas. These weeks have great potential as a
time of reflection and memory, but often become swallowed up in
day-to-day affairs: buying presents, planning trips. To help guide my
friends toward consideration of the past, I have assembled a Memory
Advent Calendar. By providing your email address below and signing up
for the calendar, you will receive, every morning from December 1 until
December 25, a brief email containing a prompt that asks you to consider
some aspect of your personal history. I hope that it can be a source
of mindfulness. The prompts are not religiously-oriented, and people of
any or no faith are welcome to subscribe.
In return for these daily prompts, I ask that you consider donation
to a charitable cause. The holiday season is also a time of generosity
and giving. I do not require it, but I suggest that you donate perhaps
ten dollars to a local food bank such as the Arlington Food Assistance
Center: https://afac.org/donatepage/donate-give/.
To sign up, please contact me directly and let me know what your
email address is. You can reach me at dtr(at)DavidTaylorReich.com or,
if you know them, my phone number or facebook account.
I wish you a happy holiday season.
David Taylor